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¡¡¡¡Nowadays, there is growing popularity of dating (or spouse hunting) on campus. Some students, who are good at dating handsome boys or pretty girls, become popular, while others, who care nothing for dating, are often sneered at. Discussion of successful marriage has attracted the interest of many curious students.
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¡¡¡¡Some people say marriage is not easy, that you have to feed and water and trim it, all that horticulture stuff. They claim that marriage is like a cage. While the bird outside tries desperately to get in, the bird inside attempts desperately to get out. Others argue that a successful marriage has little to do with work and even less to do with patience. It all comes down to a transition of attitudes. Before marriage, one should keep his two eyes wide open; after marriage shut one. They suggest that one should closely weigh many factors affecting marriage such as competence, personalities, as well as family background; and not let appearance, power or money fool you. Moreover, tolerance and mutual understanding play an important role in keeping a successful marriage.
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¡¡¡¡There is nothing wrong with dating on campus and no power can really ban it. However, finding a life-long companion is no picnic. In my opinion, we should keep our two eyes wide open to find someone we really love and faithfully keep our love and care for each other in the long journey of life.
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